NPD – Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Please note that this is a disorder, not a whim; the person can’t help being this way even though they register what they are doing; they are mentally crippled. Therefore I don’t like to use the term “narcissist” – there are so many different levels and types, and they can’t all be lumped together. This is a DISORDER. To spew hatred at them is pointless. For your own sake, forgive and move on; it’s the only way to know you are finally free. Don’t hold onto your chains, or you are authoring your own misery. Everyone is in a different place in their journey towards recovery from their relationship with an NPD person, there are different stages of recovery. I want to help you work towards your recovery, because no-one deserves those chains.